My boyfriend and I (both men) have fallen into a well-worn pattern, with him topping and me bottoming. It’s great, I enjoy it, but I’m ready to flip and he’s willing to give it a shot. But despite ...

In her mid twenties, Yesi Ortiz was starting an exciting career as a radio host. At home, she was the new legal guardian of her six nieces and nephews. Our Slate colleague David Plotz discusses recent ...